Be The Kind of Parent You

Want To Be

No parent starts off knowing what to do...

Without Conscious Effort, Our Parenting Methods Can Create Conflict Instead of Connection.

The way many of us parent creates conflict and frustration, endless power struggles, and can leave us with broken and distant relationships with our children.

When we parent our children without doing the work to better understand what is beneath our own triggers, we are destined to repeat painful patterns, no matter how badly we want it to be different. But it doesn’t have to be this way.

Healing

Heal wounds from your own childhood and/or life experiences so they don’t unconsciously influence your parenting and impact your kids

Trust

Create a deeper relationship with your children based on mutual trust, genuine connection and collaboration

Harmony

Move beyond power struggles so you can experience peace, harmony and mutual understanding with your children

It’s Never Too Late to
Turn Things Around

No matter what your relationship with your child(ren) looks like right now, there is hope.

Depending on where things are, it can be hard to believe there is truly another way. But I promise you there is (and it’s not as far off as you may think).

None of us start off as parents knowing what to do. We create plans, try to be the people we want to be and watch as our idealistic imaginings get run over by the reality of daily life and the immense pressures of caring for our kids.

“After just a few weeks of working with Lauren I have noticed a powerful shift in my parenting and relationship with my strong-willed 4 year old. I can keep my cool significantly longer and have a better understanding of what is driving the behaviors that used to instantly trigger me.”

-Katie (Long Island, NY)

Hi! I’m Lauren Varga

We all just want someone who understands what we are going through. I’m a recovering control freak and raising two boys (with baby three on the way), so I truly get how stressful and overwhelming parenting can be. Once I worked with a parent coach myself and understood how possible it was to build a relationship with children based on mutual trust, understanding and care, I saw real results in my own home. Experiencing this journey for my family, and knowing how hard it can be, has made me deeply passionate about supporting other parents in this life-changing work.

I believe all children deserve to be guided and loved by the best version each of us have to offer them as parents. I also believe all parents deserve the opportunity to be supported in this work, without judgment.

With certifications in parent coaching, mindfulness and meditation, as well as 16+ years as a communications specialist, I am here to help you successfully evolve your relationship with your kids, whatever your goals may be.

The traditional

‘power-over’ model of parenting isn’t working.

It makes you feel like you’re not doing a good job.

But that’s not the truth. I believe that the real issue is that we’re not taught how to be the kind of parents most of us long to be so we end up slipping into patterns that we’re not happy with.

Which is why when you contact me, you will be met with understanding, a non-judgemental openness and a supportive, personalized, effective plan that I will personally guide you through every step of the way. I know that you want to be a loving, peaceful parent that has a meaningful connected relationship with your children. In order to do that you need to find a way to reimagine and reestablish a different kind of relationship with your kids.

How It Works:

When you book a call with me, we’ll sit down together and talk so I can get a sense of what’s going on for you and your family and where I can offer support.

I’ll explain my approach and the options we have for working together. You can ask any questions you have and see what type of support would be the best fit for your life and schedule.

If it feels right to you, we can book our first session and get started. If it’s not a good fit, I will do my best to offer alternative resources or suggestions for support, wherever possible. There’s no pressure of any kind, simply an opportunity to see if we are a good fit to work together.